September 24, 2015

Love doctor.

How do you move on after you've had your heart broken? How do you get over that someone treated you badly? Cheated, ignored, lied, dismissed, betrayed, belittled you... All while disguising themselves in love.
    How do you get over that feeling of hopelessness and into that space where you still believe in love with fresh eyes? You ignore. You ignore what happened to you. You don't take it with you as a lesson; as something to forgive, but not forget. That's bullcrap I tell you. The trick is to forget. To forget and to ignore. You ignore what you don't like, what doesn't make you feel good. And you focus on what does. What did. I know it sounds so simple, and might feel hopeless. But it's really the best way to have a chance at a fresh start and a bright future. Or would you suck at a lollipop that tasted like old socks, just to remember what old socks smell like? I don't think so.


Love,

C




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2 comments:

  1. True. In order to continue in any field, you have to forget and forgive. Both in business and personal life. If there is a will, there is a way. 🙏🏻 however, it can be hard but don't we all want to live a life in harmony and happiness. Good text.

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    1. And practice makes perfect. Even with the difficult things. Thank you for your comment, Johnny!

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