The what?

In our traditional minds experiences vanish as the people we experience them with do. In our traditional minds experiences are depended on persons, defined by persons; we think that what happens us is determined by who we at that moment share the eventuality with.
But it is not so. It is not who we experience something with that creates the moment. It's what we experience. The 'who' can change. The 'who' will in all likeliness change. It is the 'what' that will remain. The 'what' will continue to stay a fact. Let's take love felt and lost for example: the love does not vanish with the person - only the person does. It goes for magical weekend trips and getaways as well; the moments do not become less true simply because the person you witnessed them with shifts. You saw the magic, you felt the moment - the experience was real. The reality of what happened in and around you is not depended on the person you shared the moment with.
So if you're crying over a love lost - because we so often cry over love, as we think we lose it with a person - try changing the fact that you did love into proof that you do love. Because only that is forever here for you: the experience. The 'what'.


- As true and existing as a river flows through the shapes of the earth, so does my heart beat for times lost and times had. In peace, I find you always there. Always. -


Love,

C

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